Lawyer-Coaches &
Divorce Coaches

Lawyers Using Coaches

What is a Coach?

Seven Reasons Why Lawyers Hire Coaches

    Renaissance Lawyer's Marketplace has coaches. (Link.) There is also a website for finding a lawyer-coach.

Lawyers Using Coaching Skills in Their Law Practices

     As we lawyers have become coaches and have talked to other lawyers who have been trained in coaching, we have seen that our coaching skills are very useful in interacting with our legal clients. A coach supports a client in reaching goals and staying focused on their commitments. Lawyers can use these skills to work with their legal clients in many types of disputes. Irene Leonard King has written a workbook for lawyers that includes coaching skills for lawyers.  You can purchase the book or find out more at www.coachingforchange.com.

     Divorce coaches work in a specific niche in that they support clients in creating the future they intend to have with their spouse and children and then achieving that future. They keep their clients focused on the end result so they don't get caught up in the details. Not all divorce coaches are lawyers. Some are therapists, including those trained in Collaborative Divorce.

     The skills of coaching (listening, speaking, creating futures, etc.) are very compatible with the role of a lawyer. Rather than the god-like being with all the answers, the lawyer can become a problem-solving expert by asking questions about what is important to the client, what the client wants and needs, and what result the client would like to create. Then, the two, working together, can create a plan for achieving that solution. This future-based approach avoids the blaming and accusations that have characterized many legal disputes. At least one major law firm is training its lawyers in coaching skills as a tool for dealing with legal clients.

Lawyers Being Coaches

    Many lawyers have found that they like coaching so much that they are interested in becoming coaches. Some leave law altogether. Others combine coaching and law. There are many coaching programs that can train you in general coaching skills.   Some coaches also train and consult with coaches who are working with lawyers.

     The International Coach Federation (ICF) is a good resource for coaches of all kinds. There is also a Special Interest Group (SIG) for lawyer-coaches and coaches who specialize in working with lawyers. The SIG is sponsored by Coach University, one of the many training programs for coaches, and is open to all coaches who coach lawyers. Monthly calls address issues of interest to all who coach lawyers. Contact wpsim1@aol.com for information on the Coach U Lawyer SIG.

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